Hi, does any of you could recommend me best love spell? I'm quite in a desperate position because my boyfriend left me (due to the fact that my depression was overwhelming for him) and I still wish him back. We were like 2 years in an on and off relationship and we were planning our future together. I'd really love to get him back this time for good. I hope you can help me with this, all best.
First of all love spells do not actually work but do you really need one in this situation? I mean, if you two were that in love and you know why he broke up with you then you should focus on that as if nothing else it will help you in the future. If he hasn't moved on there's always a chance you two could rekindle what you once had if you can get a handle on your depression. I know that's easier said than done but magick can't be used to make someone ignore issues or problems let alone force them to love you. Life is shaped by every decision and choice we make. I wish you the best going forward.
I always say this as a warning, but every love spell I have seen cast has always backfired. Usually it results in the person the spell was cast on growing extreme hatred towards the person that wants them. I would suggest first, eliminate the idea of being with this person as your focus. It is very easy for our subconscious to focus on something else rather then the bigger picture that needs to be address because the other issue seems more easily solved.
Take this time to heal yourself first. If you depression is a a struggle for you and it resulted in your boyfriend leaving, it will just keep happening until you address your mental health needs first. Being mentally healthy is first and foremost your biggest attribute towards having a happy and healthy relationship. As humans we generally don't put our needs first, we put others first because most of us (with the exception of few narcissist and psychopathicbehaviors) want to help others. It is a natural feeling. That is why it makes putting your needs first difficult.
See out a counselor, an advocate, or even a Dr. that can help you with your medication management. Depending on your level of depression, you must always remember that it does not go away, it needs to be consistently managed and they may be adjusting medications and such, which should always be done by a professional. If you are into herbs and remedies, you can also add some holistic things to your daily routine to help with depression but be sure to share with your dr or prescribing agency what you are taking (including herbal supplements)
As far as your ex, that relationship may be over or it may not. If you show him that you are maintaining a healthy mental self, he may feel inclined to start again with your relationship, but it shouldn't be forced. Why would you want to be with someone that does not want to be with you, even with a spell to confuse them, deep down if they aren't interested, they aren't interested. Don't put your self throughany more heart ach. I would suggest a honey jar spell. This way it leaves open the intent to have a healthy good rapport with them, which will allow them to still be in your life and witness you progress into a happy healthy state of mind.
Good luck and always remember there are many people out there that are willing to speak to you when you are feeling down. Always reach out, that is whatthe community is for. I wish you the best in your journey.
I don't recommend you doing a love spell to get him back [not because they're "wrong" but because you should do a love spell for yourself] I would focus on yourself, mourn the loss, learn from it, and set out to fall in love with yourself before trying to get him back. If you are dealing with depression I would rely on your support system as you go through the mourning and reflection process [you don't want your inner critic helping you at this time] I would defiantly look into spells to bring healing and love into your life. Very basic one is looking at yourself in the mirror and telling yourself "I love you just the way you are" [and trust me, as someone with depression the first hundred times you say it you'll roll your eyes or get creeped out or awkwardly laugh it off or snark it away, but just keep at it] once you've started healing and getting better, then I would look for a spell to bring your ex back [but I hope by that point you've reflected on your relationship with him and are in a clearly place to make a decision]
I, as well, would suggest you to take care about your emotional stability in the first please, mainly for yourself, but also because a successful spell would require a strong state of mind.
But I know that you want an answer and that's what you came here for, and because I believe you should do whatever makes you happy with magic being a tool, I will give you a tip for reconciliation work that isn't very popular, but I find that it works really well and boosts up the manifestation of the spell.
Whatever the spell is, I would add a little hex element. Which means, to make him suffer from your absence so he will realize what's he's lost, and that he is miserable without you. Basically, you want to make him feel exactly what you felt when he left you, or even worse. The logic behing that is that:
a) The realization of how painful it is to lose you will make it easier for him to come to the decision to come back to you, crawling.
b) It is way easier to magically effect a person who is weak and broken, after a hex has been put on them. I know it is not the nicest thing, but magic isn't always supposed to be nice and friendly.
It doesn't matter what spell you use as long as your intent is clear and strong, and you invest all of your will and energies to the spell. But for me, I would firstly hex him a little bit and then move on the the part where your bring him back and sweeten him up so he comes back to you.
I wish you the best of luck, and sorry if I offend anyone, my approach to spell casting is a little bit hard-core in comparison to most modern spell casters.
