hi everyone. I've got a situation and i need some advice or spells to deal with it. my husband of 31years met this older woman whom he became friends with back in march. my husband is in his 50s and she is 70. they are best friends and hang out A LOT. i don't think there's anything sexual going on. i need her to back off, move, find a different man for her friend. any suggestions?
My advice would be to speak with your husband of 31 years (and his elderly friend if you are comfortable enough to do so) . Explain to him/them howtheir relationship is making you feel. And then ask that boundaries be set and maintained by them.
I am sure there are countless spells, bindings, and etc. that could be done in a situation like yours. However given the length of time you have been with one another, you should be able to communicate freely with your husband on this matter, with the reasonable expectation of being respected in this.
She is 70. Seventy...Of course there isn't anything sexual going on. That age is positively ancient for such activites. I am not sure if that is even possible. Why did you even bring that up? Haha
Why do you want her to back off so badly if they are just best friends anyway? Did she badmouth you or something?
Relationships flourishes best when each partner has their own space, and their own friends. Posessiveness and excessive jealousy has no place. The older one gets, the harder it is to find long lasting, good-best friends. Or so I heard.
Perhaps just let your husband have his fun? Pinpointing the exact reason why you want her gone so badly and working on resolving that, would be ideal.
But what do I know anyway? I am still in my twenties and a mere stranger on the internet. Feel free to disregard this comment if you deem it irrelevant.
@ TheCommentor while i would love to agree with you and push the idea of old people sex out of my mind, sexuality isn't a switch you just turn off, once you become "sexually active" we always have that drive to some degree [also, with the advancements in medication you to can have sex right up to the grave]
@angelstcyr why do you feel so insecure? you have been happily married for 31 years or were there issues in your past that bring these doubts to light? if you can trust your husband, you shouldn't have these worries. examine them, work through them. we met people all through life, sometimes we click much quicker than others and are extremely close, but that doesn't mean because he's a man, and she's a woman they'll have an affair [i've been with my fiance for almost 10 years, earlier this year i became friends with this one guy and we are similar in a lot of ways, and our friendship feels like we've been friends for years. neither of us have plans/desires to be together, and my fiance is completely fine with the two of us as friends] i would talk to your husband about your fears [calmly and don't make accusations] try to work through these problems together, maybe seek a marriage counselor to address these issues.
if you want a spell there's plenty to choose from should you wish to end their friendship, but it wouldn't fix the main problem, only bury it, so i would go with a spell the two of you can do to bring more passion, romance, affecting to your relationship if that's what is really needed. [also, odd as this sounds, consider his needs too, sometimes we drift apart because we're taken for granted, most assume the woman needs flowers and chocolates, but sometimes a card and a favourite meal for the husband is missing and he feels unappreciated too]
