Hello there
I really need advise please!
I used this spell from this site and not sure if I should do something different or stop?
I went through a messy separation and I wanted my ex and his girlfriend to break up and feel miserable like I do. But I'm new to this and don't have any supplies. So I tried this spell but it forces me to think of them and say this spell for 7 days. Not sure if this is going to back fire or what I should do? Please help...spell details: Thanks
I see nothing absolutely infeasible with that spell.
However, free will is something to take into consideration. If your ex broke up with you, it is no longer their will to be with you. If their opinion has not changed, you cannot force them back. Their mind is made up.
Moreover, inciting a breakup because someone else is happy is basically pointless. It does nothing for you beyond temporary satisfaction, and changes nothing of your current situation.
So you were dumped. Yes: It is difficult to deal with right now. But focus on healing, and seeing ways to improve yourself. A relationship should not be your source of happiness, security, or any other aspect of who you are. You must first be happy and secure in yourself, so that the relationship does not become a crutch and a source of dependence for you.
Hi I'm not asking for judgement and there's more to the story. I was not dumped I was in an emotionally abusive relationship and left the country. That's the skinny version. Not sure if I already mentioned this but I don't actually want them back I just want them to feel the way they made me feel after treating me and my kids badly...I guess I want karma to hurry the f#$@ up and catch up with them is all!!
Please people only reply with answers to my question only. I just wanted to know if this spell will send karma their way and make them unhappy. It will make me happy. That's all. Thanks
I feel that it is a bit rude to tell someone not to reply because you don't like their answer or dont agree with it. Remember that you are the person who came asking questions, prsona answered it as well as he could. As well as he did answer it knowledgably, and I feel he answered it without being rude. If you truly wish to practice magick and dont want to hear what other people have to say about it I suggest doing a lot of personal studying and not posting your questions on a forum.
I hope you understand what I'm gonna say here but look if it was a bad relationship and you and your kids are now out of it, count yourself lucky. I know I was in one that almost cost me my life and it did take one of my children.
But if you are looking for Karma and want it fast, well here it is:
Move on, find someone better, be happy, be loved and love in return!!( Karma!!!)
Abusive people love when they have exes who can't move on, they believe they own them. They get joy out of your pain.
If you really want to hurt him, banish him. But don't give in to all this resentment. It's not healthy and you will never truly be able to move on for you or kids if you don't let go.
Don't worry Fate has your back.
And I to, for awhile wanted my ex to suffer, but finally let go and I moved on and now I'm happy with who I am now, found a beautiful man who is loving,caring and gentle.( Which I thought at the time didn't exist).
My ex, the crap that he is, has no woman, no job, no cell phone, no car (he pawned it, lol) no driver license, no money and is living at home with his elderly mom and living off her SSI. He's a bum. KARMA!!!!!
You said, "Not sure if I already mentioned this but I don't actually want them back I just want them to feel the way they made me feel"
You want to use a spell which it titled:
"Breakup, banish, and Get Your Ex Back."
Much is implied there.
But I'll move on.
Alright, again, so you were scorned.
Harming the other person, whether the spell you choose works, does no real good for you in the long term. I don't really give half a rat's patoot about karma. But such things do one thing: They keep the other person on your mind and in the forefront of your life, even when they are not there.
Your absolute best option is just to let the other go, if all else has been said and done with separating from them. Be done with them. Break ties, banish, and heal.
Keeping vengeful thoughts and words will not only harm you, but it will also damage your children. You will screw them up for the rest of their lives.
Where's a moderator when you need one. Tempers flaring don't help anyone but I digress. To answer your question the spell you are trying to use has nothing to do with karma or justice. It is a spell meant to get you back together with your ex and this seems to be the last thing you want. Also, breaking up you ex's relationship does not only harm him but the person he is with. In the end this may very well bring karma down on someone but it will be you. You are focusing all of your negative emotions and thoughts onto someone you don't want in your life anymore. He may not be physically there but if you harbor these emotions he will haunt you forever as you are keeping him in your heart & mind. It is better to let go and move on with your life. The universe will deal with him in its own way in its own time.
In my opinion you can't send Karma. I'm not sure if I truly believe in Karma myself but my theory on the topic is that it's out of our control. Karma just happens. So if I were in your shoes I would just do a spell to make them break up and an additional curse on him and his future relationships. Project all the negative feelings he caused you onto him. I know this is super vague and I'll be happy to elaborate more if you need it!
